With the observance of Global AIDS Action Week last week, once again the issue of sex  education is likely to get linked with AIDS prevention. Over the years we have seen sex education being debated either in the context of concerns about population control or AIDS prevention. Does education about sex and sexuality have to be perceived only within the confines of these two arenas?  
In the wake of the Central government's attempts to introduce sex education from class VI onwards, the refusal of  state governments of Maharashtra, Karnataka and Madhya Pradesh, Gujarat and Chhattisgarh  has thrown up other issues. It is no accident that these are states with a significant Sangh Parivar presence in  government and their refusal  stems  largely from a perception that sex education will lead to corruption of Indian culture. In the context of their claim to be self-proclaimed custodians of  this "culture", the recent proclamations by Karnataka Minister Horatti that sex education will be replaced by morality education comes as no surprise.  
While there  is a need to openly discuss the age-appropriateness of  the  modules and illustrations in the proposed curriculum, outright refusal  to introduce sex education is disconcerting. Yet decisions like these  need to be based on hard (even if unpalatable) facts, instead of hypothetical fears and misconceptions.
Firstly,  a misconception that  sex education is about  biology and the sexual act needs to be clarified. Sex education looks at the total persona – our understanding of our bodies, our notions of intimacy in relationships, respect for  each other's autonomy, our evolution as sexual beings, our  safety from sexual abuse, the development of a healthy attitude towards one’s own sexuality and respect for different sexual orientations.
 It is also about reproductive health, the institution of marriage and family and the responsibility towards self and society in the context of procreation as well as pleasure. Most importantly, it is about the gender divide  and comprehending the ‘gender’ socialisation  that pave the way for sexual violence against women, children of both sexes and  against transgender communities.  Therefore reducing sex education  to just education about sex, is an erroneous notion. And yes, it is about culture, a culture of dignity, respect, autonomy and responsibility.
Another fear is  that sex education will  provoke children to become sexually active.
The truth however is that  children too (not just adolescents) are sexual beings. Their explorations of their own bodies and  childhood sexual  play with friends and siblings has been recognised as normal and not dysfunctional behaviour. In a society where we squirm to openly  acknowledge even adult sexuality, childhood sexuality has remained a taboo and an enigma.
At the same time, the sexual abuse of children by adults is now recognised as endemic.
The study by Samvada, Bangalore in 1994 and National Study  conducted by the Ministry of Women and Child Development, UNICEF and Save the Children in 2007,  note that child sexual abuse in India begins as early as age five, increases dramatically during pre-pubescence and peaks at 12 to 16 years. Twenty-one per cent of respondents reported severe sexual abuse like rape, sodomy, fondling or exposure to pornographic material and 53 per cent acknowledged other forms of  sexual abuse with over 50 per cent of the abusers being known and trusted adults.
Most of those abused emphasise that they did not understand what was being done  to them. A misplaced trust in "family" or respected elders and the abusers' confidence  that  the child will not be able to comprehend or disclose the abuse, have set the stage for such  abuse and trauma. By not  providing sex education that is age-appropriate and sensitive to social structures, governments are compromising the safety and mental health of our precious children.
With 50 per cent of girls in India married before the age of 18  and 40 per cent before the age of 16, it is ironic that adolescent girls are considered ready for marriage, but not for sex education! Among the economically better off where the marriage age is increasing, not only are adolescents vulnerable to sexual abuse, their own sexual experimentation is more covert. Would it not make more sense to help them talk openly about their anxieties and desires?
Are we willing to place honour of an imagined community before basic human rights, desires and safety of our children and youth? Is  this morality?