<p class="title">When Koyel M came out as a queer seven years ago, she did not have to confront a homophobe in her mother.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Following several conversations, her mother overcame her initial inhibitions and embraced her daughter's sexuality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">But her mother's acceptance wasn't enough to keep the 23-year-old gender-fluid queer comfortable in environments beyond the four walls of her house.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Often, while on a romantic date with a woman in a public space, Koyel became the subject of uncomfortable stares and mutterings.</p>.<p class="bodytext">On September 6, all that changed when the Supreme Court ruled that consensual gay sex was not a crime, and noted that the British-era law criminalising homosexuality violated the right to equality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The stigma might continue till society comes out of its biased moorings but the fear of being viewed as a criminal in the eyes of the law is at least over.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"The law can now be my armour," Koyel told PTI.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The verdict has come as a relief to Koyel and thousands of others like her who can now look for love without the scare of being put behind the bars.</p>.<p class="bodytext">While she prefers meeting new people outside of social networking channels, she admits that online dating is "easier and faster".</p>.<p class="bodytext">"I, personally, do not look for any serious engagement over or through social networking platforms, but the online dating scenario is something that the new paced life has adopted for itself," she said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Popular dating applications among the LGBTQ community include Tinder and OkCupid, which according to Divya Dureja, a queer-poet-activist, are "quite accessible and friendly".</p>.<p class="bodytext">Dureja counters the common perception that Tinder is a heterosexual dating app and explains that preferences can be customised according to an individual's sexuality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Dureja, who has used over 10 applications and websites to find herself a date, said she had been using Tinder "for years to meet other queer women".</p>.<p class="bodytext">However, online dating for the LGBT community, much like heterosexuals, comes with a risk of its own.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Prior to the SC's verdict, the members of the community were afraid of being "trapped by extortionists" who could threaten them with police arrest.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Now, LGBTQ activist Harish Iyer says the only major threat is that of "fear of disclosure", which is universal.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"Threats of online dating have reduced drastically, the only thing they can operate on is fear.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"Fear of disclosure, which is the same as the heterosexual couples actually, as they are afraid their families might come to know about it," Iyer said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The discomfort of dating the same sex partner also varies with the city one resides in -- while metropolises like Delhi and Mumbai have welcomed people of different sexualities, it continues to be a taboo in smaller towns.</p>.<p class="bodytext">For Dureja, living as a queer woman in Delhi proved to be "relatively safe", making it easier for her to navigate public spaces for romantic encounters.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"My privilege of being in a metropolitan city like Delhi has kept me shielded from facing grave issues or hindrances from others while on a date with women in the public sphere," she said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Iyer agrees that contrary to big cities which are "islands of the privileged", one can engage in a homosexual relationship in smaller towns only in disguise.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"You have to say 'he is my brother, or my friend'," he said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">It is this dearth of safe and comfortable public spaces that Ishaan Sethi is trying to fight with his dating application -- Delta, also touted to be India's "first homegrown LGBTQ dating app".</p>.<p class="bodytext">The app essentially ties up with different brands and cafes -- Olive, Smoke House Deli, Grand Hyatt among others, to offer members of the community places they can visit without any legal problems or social stigma.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"The places we have partnered with taking care that the staff and the environment are inclusive," Sethi said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">While Sethi is unable to share the number of subscribers, he agrees that the dating app, which was launched earlier this year in April, has seen a "spike in the userbase after the verdict". </p>
<p class="title">When Koyel M came out as a queer seven years ago, she did not have to confront a homophobe in her mother.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Following several conversations, her mother overcame her initial inhibitions and embraced her daughter's sexuality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">But her mother's acceptance wasn't enough to keep the 23-year-old gender-fluid queer comfortable in environments beyond the four walls of her house.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Often, while on a romantic date with a woman in a public space, Koyel became the subject of uncomfortable stares and mutterings.</p>.<p class="bodytext">On September 6, all that changed when the Supreme Court ruled that consensual gay sex was not a crime, and noted that the British-era law criminalising homosexuality violated the right to equality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The stigma might continue till society comes out of its biased moorings but the fear of being viewed as a criminal in the eyes of the law is at least over.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"The law can now be my armour," Koyel told PTI.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The verdict has come as a relief to Koyel and thousands of others like her who can now look for love without the scare of being put behind the bars.</p>.<p class="bodytext">While she prefers meeting new people outside of social networking channels, she admits that online dating is "easier and faster".</p>.<p class="bodytext">"I, personally, do not look for any serious engagement over or through social networking platforms, but the online dating scenario is something that the new paced life has adopted for itself," she said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Popular dating applications among the LGBTQ community include Tinder and OkCupid, which according to Divya Dureja, a queer-poet-activist, are "quite accessible and friendly".</p>.<p class="bodytext">Dureja counters the common perception that Tinder is a heterosexual dating app and explains that preferences can be customised according to an individual's sexuality.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Dureja, who has used over 10 applications and websites to find herself a date, said she had been using Tinder "for years to meet other queer women".</p>.<p class="bodytext">However, online dating for the LGBT community, much like heterosexuals, comes with a risk of its own.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Prior to the SC's verdict, the members of the community were afraid of being "trapped by extortionists" who could threaten them with police arrest.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Now, LGBTQ activist Harish Iyer says the only major threat is that of "fear of disclosure", which is universal.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"Threats of online dating have reduced drastically, the only thing they can operate on is fear.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"Fear of disclosure, which is the same as the heterosexual couples actually, as they are afraid their families might come to know about it," Iyer said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">The discomfort of dating the same sex partner also varies with the city one resides in -- while metropolises like Delhi and Mumbai have welcomed people of different sexualities, it continues to be a taboo in smaller towns.</p>.<p class="bodytext">For Dureja, living as a queer woman in Delhi proved to be "relatively safe", making it easier for her to navigate public spaces for romantic encounters.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"My privilege of being in a metropolitan city like Delhi has kept me shielded from facing grave issues or hindrances from others while on a date with women in the public sphere," she said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">Iyer agrees that contrary to big cities which are "islands of the privileged", one can engage in a homosexual relationship in smaller towns only in disguise.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"You have to say 'he is my brother, or my friend'," he said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">It is this dearth of safe and comfortable public spaces that Ishaan Sethi is trying to fight with his dating application -- Delta, also touted to be India's "first homegrown LGBTQ dating app".</p>.<p class="bodytext">The app essentially ties up with different brands and cafes -- Olive, Smoke House Deli, Grand Hyatt among others, to offer members of the community places they can visit without any legal problems or social stigma.</p>.<p class="bodytext">"The places we have partnered with taking care that the staff and the environment are inclusive," Sethi said.</p>.<p class="bodytext">While Sethi is unable to share the number of subscribers, he agrees that the dating app, which was launched earlier this year in April, has seen a "spike in the userbase after the verdict". </p>