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Inner communication

Last Updated 07 April 2011, 15:16 IST

To change your self-talk from a nagging state to an empowering state is one of the important aspects of education. While living in heaven, if you have a negative self-talk then you create hell in heaven. This is what, constantly, people are doing.

A youth, right from his young age, should develop the discipline of editing and auditing his self-talk. This practice will become his inner discipline.

My girlfriend ditched me and hence I want to put acid on her face or see if I can spoil her life. ust observe the quality of your self-talk. This is destructive. This will destroy your life. Even if you succeed, after spoiling her, there will be inner tension, and thus you create hell for yourself.

See the alternative inner conversation. I have had time with her, I have enjoyed her company and I am grateful we enjoyed ourselves.

Now the chapter is closed. If one door closes another door opens. very relationship has its own beginning and end and now let me flow with the current of life. Let me accept that this relationship has reached its end.

Acceptance is a great power one has to build. If you don’t have the power of acceptance then you will not be able to be in tune with life. You will not accept your ageing process. You will be in conflict with life.

A youth should create harmony with life and not a conflict with life. What should be the clarity of understanding with reference to our mind and its functions?

Mind is a self-talk mechanism. Teach your mind to have empowering self-talk and not disempowering self-talk.  Let your self-talk give you joy and learn to hook on to the stars. Let your goals be inspiring, have high goals but learn the art of enjoying what is.
Understand that there is both positive and negative in us. When someone says something negative of us or of others, the whole army of negative energy comes in union with that.

When someone says something positive of us or of others, depending on what you have, negative or positive will flow,.  i.e., if you have more positive energy, then positive energy will flow, but if you are more negative and when something positive is said, then your negative energy flow will be activated.

So learn to understand how this works.

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(Published 07 April 2011, 15:16 IST)

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