In search of the right home

Single Struggle

Bangalore has an increasing number of people living in the City alone. While there is no shortage of paying guest accommodations here, living in a flat alone is a different ballgame altogether.

‘Metrolife’ speaks to men and women living in flats alone to find out about the complications they have faced and their experiences.

Looking for a place alone turns out to be quite a hefty proposition especially in centrally-located areas. “Yes, there were problems when I started out here.

To begin with, it is really hard to find a house especially in the centre of the City as most of them are extremely costly with deposits ranging from Rs 40,000 to Rs 50,000 and high rents as well,” says Rayyan Alismailly, a student of Mount Carmel College.

“The 10-month-advance rent system is a bit high. Mostly, people moving in newly to the City are the ones who are hassled. You come here to make money but you end up shelling out so much for a place to stay instead,” says Ashvin, a marketing professional.

There are a few people who feel that the profession also makes a huge difference in getting you the place. “It was not that difficult. But yes, since I am a fashion student, many people did not want to give the house on rent to a single girl who is from the fashion industry. That is something I found very irritating,” says Ruma, a student.

Another problem is the lack of facilities in many so-called ‘flats’. “Searching for a decent place has become a lot tougher in a City with swelling population and constant price rise.

Owners, who put up places for rent, are motivated by the good monthly income but seldom are these places of good standard,” says Jomon Philipose, an IT professional.

Others agree with him. “Even the basics of a house are sometimes completely done away and with the steady stream of people flowing into the City, even such places are easily rented out,” says Sangita, an HR executive.

“Also, some flats are specifically kept for bachelors or married couples, which reduces the already limited options,” she adds. But on the whole, there is a lot to be learnt from the search. “It takes courage to stay alone. The neighbours are really nosy at times and it does get scary but overall, it is a learning experience,” says Rayyan.