JOIN USThe exam jitters are palpable. But not everyone is a victim. There are those who are confident of topping the exams, while there are others who are smart enough to have set realistic expectations. "At the end of the day, one should realise that it is not the end of the world," says Neha Anil, a II PU student from Bengaluru. She believes that consistent preparation and support from teachers is what has made her confident. Her sister, Nidhi, who is appearing for tenth standard exams, echoes her sentiment. Barely nervous, she thinks having an older sibling is an added asset, as they share their experiences and help out when in need.
Needless to say, the mounting pressure is no elephant in the room. It is widely acknowledged, and what's more, children have found constructive and effective ways to deal with it. Popular outlets seem to include listening to music, watching some TV, taking small walks and meditating. Some even believe that compromising on extracurricular activities is unnecessary. Pavitra V, a II PU Commerce student from Mysuru, took part in her college's annual sports day and cultural festival, notwithstanding the upcoming board exams.
However, for students like Swamini Moye, a class ten student from Pune, it’s mostly studies and no play. The games on the computer are off limits until the exams are over. Her mother Amita reasons, “It is important to keep kids in check. I have stopped giving her oily snacks and cold food. Her exams are the most important thing right now.”
The sentiment is echoed in most Indian homes. Even if kids are mature enough to figure out what is expected of them, parents seem to find it challenging to figure out a middle ground so that their children give the exams their best shot, without facing a burnout in the process.
But then, some things never really change. Says Ria Ramesh, a II PU Arts student from Navi Mumbai, “I'm a little nervous, in spite of being prepared. There have been some rumours that the papers will be tough. I just want to finish with these exams.”